Thinking about DIVORCE ? Well misery always appreciates company ! From QUORA :

Profile photo for Corey Baldwin Corey Baldwin Certificate in Communication & Unit Armorer, U.S. Army (Graduated 1986)Oct 2 Why do husbands leave after 20+ years of marriage? [ "I left because of exhaustion brought on by a wife who was a “homemaker” but did absolutely nothing all day. I would come home to a house so messy, I could barely walk from room to room. She never cooked. I would have to spend an hour every day after coming home from work (a hour drive) cleaning the kitchen just so I could cook supper. She kept cleaning out the bank account to where we had some services cut off from lack of payment. She spent money like it grew on trees. She would stay up all night, sleep all day while she was supposed to be homeschooling the kids. My 2 year old daughter almost choked to death on marbles while she was sleeping and letting my 11 year old son with adhd watch her. I found this out from my son years later. She told him to lie about it to the police and me. The final straw was I cleaned out the bank account, and opened a new one with just my name on it just in time to be able to make the house payment with $20 left over for two weeks. She found out and called the police on me telling them I threw her across the room. I almost got handcuffed and thrown in jail, but I got kicked out of my own house that I bought before we met. The next day I filed for divorce. I ended up with the house, car and her paying me child support because my daughter (the one who almost choked to death) did not want to go with my ex. When all said and done, I felt like I was just released from prison. I had to get away from her. If I hadn’t, I probably wouldn’t be alive today. " ]